On the ride home feom work today my wife asked what my New Year's resolution would be. She told me her's would be to practice how to be more selfish (exact words). Her entire life has been for the sacrifice of others but she has gotten no return that she can shee.
But the way she asked me was suggestive, as to if I need to work on anything. The obvious answer is to work on my marriage, but I didn't say it. I thought I was already taking steps now, and not waiting until the new year.
She pointed out how I can turn to everyone else but not her. I need to step up in my marriage, but I don't know how or where to start. Is it supposed to be this complicated?? I'm trying to make a plan but it can't be done overnight. Even it coming to fruition will take time. How do I stop the emotions from flaring?? How can I make it easy to restore her faith in me??
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